Life often isn’t smooth sailing all the time. In fact, it seems that we always encounter more obstacles than fortunate events. We hate problems because of the stress they brought to us, the helplessness feeling and we blame everyone else for every problem that happened.
The most common thing we feel when we faced a problem. We keep thinking why did it happened. We blame ourselves, we blame our decision, we blame whoever invited the problem. It contribute to a negative feeling and at last instead of solving it, we avoid thinking about it, we try to neglect it and eventually we decided to hide and let the problem haunt us.
Why don’t people just start finding solution of a problem immediately? Why bother something that has already happened. A problem is meant to be fixed and life is like that. I am a person that believe every problem has a solution or at least make it a smaller problem. Next time when a problem arises, embrace it immediately and stop WHINING.
Another reason why we are so afraid of a problem that is fear to make a decision. We worry about all the consequences. If you have ever learn basic decision making skill, you can NEVER judge a decision whether it is a good or bad one before knowing the result. Since we do not have the ability to see the future, there isn’t a good or bad decision, it is either you decide something or don’t. If you don’t know what to decide, just flip a coin. Be brave and start to take responsibility of the decision you took and never regret it even if it is a “bad” decision.
